Sometimes a girl has to do what a girl has to do! It is necessary for every woman, every where, no matter your race, or age. There are just some things a girl has to do for herself. There are some things that HAS to be on a girls agenda, otherwise things are not going to be right!!! There are those things that matter to a woman that won't matter to anyone else. It keeps our heads held high, our esteem up and attitude and responses are better if the small things are taken care. It is NECESSARY for a woman to be pampered. We have to be cared for! We have to be looked after....we must be tended to. It's the small things that matter so much. When these things happen, it changes everything in our homes, in our relationships and in our behaviors. By no means is this an all inclusive list as the only things that matter to us; but is a pretty good start. So here we go..........
- Manicure & Pedicure
- Massage
- Facial
- Getting your hair done
- Shopping with/without girlfriends
- A day with absolutely nothing to do for anyone
I know women every where are in agreement with me on this. A girl grows up wanting to be pampered and wanting to dress up and look nice. As a child, we had our own tea parties, using our mom's clothing items as our "dressed" up clothes. We wore hats, heels and pressed lipstick on
our lips. We fantasized about being grown and looking fancy! If there was a hat, we put it on, even though the hat would swallow up our little heads. As we grow older, those desires don't go away. One of the greatest thing is to have a girlfriend day with perhaps a spa day. It totally takes your mind away from life things such as motherhood, wife, care-taker, etc. The focus is on yourself, something that is not done often enough for us. If any of my sisters need permission to be free, permission to dote on yourself, here it is..........Take care of you. If there is no good, relaxed and rested you, there is no real you! Sisters, you need a "ME" day. It's part of our survival to have these moments where it really is ALL about you! Make time to have time for yourself. I support you in your decision!!!
